A Pixie Searching for her Wings..

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How do you get someone out of the song you love? How do you listen to The Smiths and not think about them, how do you not remember?
How do you read the books they love and not try and figure out what made those words special? How do you read the books you love and not look for them in the spaces between the lines?
How do you get to a place where you don’t want to tell them about that amazing pizza place you discovered, and yes, by-the-way, I stumbled upon a pub you’d love, and yes I still prefer cider to beer.
How do you let someone go completely? How do you go from pretending to not need them, and want them and crave them, to actually being OK?
How do you get to a place where May is just another month and not a mausoleum for shared heartbeats?
How do you move on?
When does it happen?
m.v., This isn’t a poem, it’s a plea. (via findingwordsforthoughts)

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Fun little trick I learned in therapy: validation. When someone is upset, don’t try to fix the problem, point out the cause, or tell them it could be worse. Just validate their emotions. Be like, ‘shit yeah man, that sucks. I’m sorry you’re going through that. I’m here for you.’ That’s literally all you have to do to make them feel better. Thank you and goodnight.


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